saying goodbye

Hello everyone I hope you are making the most of this beautiful Friday!

I wanted to write you about relationships today. Relationships are great when your with the right person but as many of you have or will find out you have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your prince. And having to say goodbye to these frogs can be hard even if you are sure they aren’t right for you.

Now I came to think of this post because of a recent experience one of my best friends has gone through. She was in a relationship with a boy that she had fallen head over heals for. Its safe to say that she really was in love with him, or who she thought he was. It turns out he wasnt the prince she thought he was and he broke up with her leaving her with no closure and wont even return her calls. Now I understand that sometimes people fall in and out of love there isnt always going to be a clear reason to why, but when you are the person that has to hear that your once prince charming no longer loves you there is nothing that will make you feel better. For her sake a really wish there were magic words that I could say and make all the pain go away but unfortunately there is not.

So this post is for all you girl who feel heart-broken and betrayed if there was a special remedy I could share with you I would but like I said before there is not. But you should all know that its okay to cry and feel like you hit rock bottom breaks ups hurt and theres no denying that. But I want you to stay strong and to realize that know matter who or how this person broke your heart you will ne okay you will heal and you will find love again. Just remember you are strong these things dont need to break you and just because this one relationship is over doesnt mean your life is over so take a few deep breaths, eat a tub of icecream, and watch chick flicks till you fall asleep. Life is not always what you expect and you are stronger then this so just remember stay strong.

I love you all

Xoxo Michelle ❤

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Keep Moving Forward

Hello All my favorite people!!

So I am sure that many of you have seen the disney movie Meet The Robinson’s and if you have then you know the moral and slogan for the movie is keep moving forward. I have watched this movie recently and I thought this would make for a good post.

In my experience looking to the future is more productive then dwelling on the past. Everyone has a past whether that be positive or negative  everyone has one. I cant say that I have a dark or negative past what so ever but I have made plenty of mistakes just like everyone else. As corny and generic as that sounds its important that we learn from these mistakes. This is because if we do not then our life will just be made from the same repetitive mistakes.

But why I am writing today is more about your future. It is a new year time to set new goals and aim just a little bit higher. Its time to finally get dedicated to improving your life. My best advice would be to try new things find a passion. These things can change your life. Say you find out that your an amazing painter this gift could open so many doors for you in your life. You may decide that you want to pursue a career in cartooning or animation. Finding these passions and gifts you have can really change your life and help you find your self.

So remember to always keep moving forward if your past is haunting you then learn from it and move on find a goal or a passion and pour your heart and soul into this. Remember Keep Moving Forward!!!

Thank you all

Michelle

XOXO

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Always end with a friend

Hello all you wonderful people!

I was just sitting here in my room thinking about what I should write about tonight!  Then I thought of one of the most important aspects of every persons life. Friendship!! Friendships means different things to everyone some people may rely on their friends for everything in life, some people may be more independent but love to chat it up over coffee, so some people your friends are your family, and to some people the relationship between you and your best friend is the strongest and most important bond in the entire world. 

Friends are people you call for advice, to give good news and just to chat about your day. I am one of those people who never had a bunch of friends I have always been shy and timid around new people. I remember high school being such a challenge for me because if I did not have a friend in my class i would feel uncomfortable and remain quite through most of the class. Although with maturity and becoming more confident and comfortable in my own skin this all changed. When I was going through high school i was always jealous of those girls who would have groups to go to the mall with and I struggled feeling like I was alone, I’ll never forget how my mom would tell me that I was the lucky one although i didn’t have a giant clique to shop with I had amazing friends. She told me that you can have many friends but if you can fill up one hand with true friends then you are very fortunate. 

I still live by what my mom told me! I am a very rich person not in money but in friendship I feel like in the end when you reflect on your day, your school career, or your live you will remember the people who put themselves permanently in your heart. My second grade teacher taught me the saying always end with a friend as a trick to teach us how to spell “friend” but to me this saying means so much more then a quick spelling trick it is a way of life, it is an important lesson.

 

I hope you all have an amazing few days go give your friends a hug and remember how lucky you are

 

Love you all 

xoxo

Michelle

 

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Me and Kelsey My Best Friend since Birth! 

“YOU” is beautiful!

Hello all of my favorite people,

I wanted to write to you about new year resolutions! Im sure we have all heard so many people talking about this being the year that they quit smoking, loose weight, get their dream job, ect… and I’m sure you all have some resolutions of your own. Resolutions can be great they can motivate you to do great things and finally accomplish things you’ve been working towards.

However I have heard a lot about making a “new you” or a “better you” and this just doesn’t sit right with me. I prefer to say an “improved you” because I don’t ever thing anyone should be looking to make a “new you” since its important to love who you are and to understand that you shouldn’t try to change what makes you, you. Sure their is always going to be times where you feel like change or little improvements but to me its more important to make sure you find yourself after you do that it will be easier to make see what you should really be striving for in the new year.

So here it is everyone for all of you who don’t fully know you I challenge you to make 2014 the year that you get to know yourself. However you decide to do this I hope you guys find yourselves learn to love yourselves and everything else will fall into place as well I promise!! 

 

I love you all remember “YOU” is beautiful! 

 

xoxox Michelle

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Happy New Year

Hello all you beautiful people

Sorry I have been away for so long! Ugh I feel horrible about how long it has been! I just got swallowed with all the stress and time I had to put into finals and work and internships its been quite the few months for me. But i’m back now so lets catch up!!

Well Merry christmas, Happy Hanukkah, Happy Kwanza, Happy New year!! Seems like I missed a lot 😦 

This post is just going to be a quick catchup of my past few months there will be a new years post coming up quickly. And since I know you guys would rather just see my catch up rather then read all the boring info I will attach a few pictures for you all!

Talk to you soon 

xoxo Michelle

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So i had great times with my friends and family, Got a new house, became an anthropologist, fell in love, and went to comic con where I met my favorite authors!

I had an amazing year and I hope you all did to I love you all and happy new year!!