A Week Of Complements

Hello all my beautiful readers!

Today I wanna talk to you about a challenge that I just completed! Its called a week of complements and I loved it. Here are the rules

You must give complements to different people depending on the day for one week.

Sunday: Compliment A family member

Monday: Compliment a friend

Tuesday: Compliment and elder

Wednesday: Compliment a classmate or coworker

Thursday: Compliment an acquaintance

Friday: Compliment a stranger

Saturday: compliment 5 people

Doing this will help spread the love and make other feel good about them selves! This however will help you feel good about your self to! I did this challenge as part of my social behavior class and loved the out come! Not only did I make people smile and feel good but as the week went on I felt more comfortable giving compliments to all different people from mother to complete stranger. Also you start to appreciate things about people what makes them beautiful and special. It helps you realize things about your self to!!

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RJ Brousseau

Hello everyone I have gotten a lot of Emails and comments about the my post involving my favorite book! it seems to me that a lot of you are as into sci-fi and fantasy as I am. Well I just wanted to tell you of an opportunity that I found on the authors blog! It turns out if you just go to their blog you can win a free Kindle just by putting in your email address. Plus the blog is definitely worth checking out!

Some thing that I am most looking forward to coming up is actually the Road Island Comic Con RJ Brousseau will be their signing books! Meeting someone you look up to and who’s work you love is always exciting!

Make sure you check out the blog

Love you all

XOXO

Michelle

Rj Brousseau Blog

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Breast Cancer awareness

Hello again everybody!

I wanted to write to you today about an issue that is very important to me, and that is breast cancer. This is a horrible cancer that is killing many woman. When you think more deeply into this we know that it is not just taking away lives but also taking away mothers, daughters, sister, cousins, and best friends. We must find a cure! October is breast cancer awareness month and there are so many ways to help! Many stores are selling pink items with the profits going to finding a cure. I am not telling you all to go out and spend a lot of money but spread the word because it is very important.

MY grandma is a breast cancer survivor and went through a lot to be here with us today. She is a fighter and I am so proud to call her my nana!

I have bought a few items this mouth to help but I am also trying to spread the word. For the rest of this month I will be wearing pink to show my support!

XOXO

Michelle

Imagethis is nana <33

 

Photoshop

Okay ladys confession time! Im sure we all have gone to edit our photos in hope that we will look like the celebrities and get that perfect profile picture. But if you really think about it what are we really doing here? We are changing who we are. And lets face it we need to learn to look at all of our pictures and be proud this is who we are what we look at and we should be proud. 

Stop looking at the magazines and wishing you could look like that celeb because in reality they don’t look like that either. I have a challenge for all of you beautiful girls and guys! take a photo of your self unphotoshoped, retouched, or filtered. Look at it and focus on things you love about it maybe your eyes look brilliantly blue or beautifully brown. Maybe your hair has the perfect wave or maybe your smile reminds you of something that makes you happy. What ever it is find it, then post it! I know for some of you this may be a little intimidating but just try even post it in my comments I want all of you to feel beautiful like you truly are. And you know what I am doing it to but I’m gonna do it with you I will also take it a step further then what I am asking of you all, No make up D: haha so here is me everyone 

Remember your 

Love michelle XOXOXImage

Humans of New York

Today I want to give credit to another blog that I just discovered. Its called humans of New York and it is amazing and heart warming! Who ever the blogger is, has a beautiful mind and soul. It focuses around pictures that she took of people in New York she writes things that they say or do and you really need to read it to understand why it is so heart warming and amazing! please just go check them out I can not stress how great they are!

http://www.humansofnewyork.com

Be Happy Not Hungry!

UnknownHello again Look at this I guess I just have to much to say tonight!

So I wanted to write to all of you girls out there who see them selfs as over weight. Recently at my school I have been helping a freshman who has a history of an eating disorder. She is doing better and recovering nicely thank goodness but the struggle i see her make multiple times a day just to finish her plate of food makes cringe. I She is a happy girl who always smiles and is only kind and caring to everyone she meets but when lunch time comes around she seems to be totally different. Her life becomes a struggle and she fights to do what she needs to survive. Eating lunch is come thing that many people don’t think of as a struggle but if you are one of those people please seek help it important I would hate for anything to happen to any of you! Believe me when I say that starving your self in never worth it there are other and saver ways to do this.

You are all beautiful no matter your size!!

XXOO

Michelle ❤

Boys, Books, and Boobs

Hello every one! So from my emails to my comments it has come to my attention that most of my readers are young to teenaged girls. Many of you have written to me about relationships, school, or their appearance. Although I try my hardest to reply to every email, comment, or tweet I get I wanted to write to address all of you since many of you have the same questions and concerns.

So first on the list BOYS!

Dating can be a scary thing especially if you are new to this world. The first and most important advise I can give is be yourself. Don’t try to be someone you think your crush would like, and don’t compare yourself to other girls you know, What they have experienced should be different then your own experiences because you dont have the same life or relationship. Peer pressure is going to happen in most aspects of your life including relationships so weather it comes from your boyfriend or your friends don’t give in and live your life at the pace you want to!

Next BOOKS!

Many of teenagers have written in to me about college advice from what to expect and how to make friends as a freshman to where to start looking for colleges. Well the advice I have for all you freshman is to sit next to someone in class. I cant tell you how many people in my school elide to sit a seat away from other people, how are you going to make friends like that? Most freshman don’t know anyone either so say hello offer to make a study group, join a club, volunteer! You’ll have friends in no time and remember be yourself! And when it comes to looking at colleges the only think i can say is decide how far you want to go from home an start there , do you wanna commute, are you willing to have to fly back in forth that is an important part of school!

Finally BOOBS!

A lot of emails I have gotten have been about what girls see in the mirror wether it be because of your braces, blemishes, or flat chests you all need to understand you are beautiful I may not know you all personally but I am sure that you are are gorgeous and you really do need to know this about yourself to! Start by looking in the mirror pick one thing you like about your self and then tomorrow pick something else you like about your self believe me there should not be one thing that you don’t like about your self even if you have to take these baby steps till you see this you are beautiful!!!Image

Finding Things you Love

Hello everyone sorry for my lack of posts again with classes picking up my September has been stuffed full of books, quizzes, and late night studying, but hey thats the joy of college right? Well anyway I have finally found a time to get back to all of you wonderful readers!!

When I was thinking about what I wanted to write about I was cleaning up my dorm room! I came across my paperback copy of Battle of Honor:Gates. And it got me thinking about things that I love to do and what helps me distress when I come across my book I realized that there are things that I do with out thinking to help me go back to my happy place when it seems far away.

One of the things i like to do is this! I love writing to all of you guys and even writing back to the emails I get giving advice talking to my readers it really does make me feel like I make a difference in the world and when I get tired it keeps me going. When I get really stressed I love toread too.  That particular book, Battle Of Honor:Gates, I’m kinda obsessed with I have read it so many times that I’m pretty sure that I could recite it in my sleep. But when you find something you really love you just cant get enough of it. And this book takes me to a different world one of sic-fi perfection RJ Brousseau you are a genius.

So I guess what I am trying to tell you is find things that you love because the world can get stressful and you will need an outlet. Also find something that you find you are good at or you feel makes you who you are because those things will make all the stress worth it.

love you all and remember stay who you are and don’t stress the small stuff

XOXO

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