Being afraid

ImageEvery one has those things that they dread whether your afraid of these things or you just hate coming in contact with these things and scenarios. Fear is healthy! it comes from our natural instincts from the dayswhen we could have been considered pray. But there are some things that we are missing out on due to fear.

Did you know that statistically you are more likely to die in a car then any other way other then a heart attack?

I am personally afraid of birds and I know this is humorous to most people but its a legit phobia I have. Know I am trying to move past this fear but i first need to realize where it started. Bruce wayne says become what you fear and there is NO way I’m becoming bird girl so Im going to take it slow!

You all should do this with me let me know what fears you all are going to work on!

Love you all


Safe Haven

So tonight i sat down with my mom to watch Safe Haven It was a great movie about falling out of love and falling in love. Not to give anything a way but a lot of the movie revolved around “katie’s” past with an abuse alcoholic husband. This idea brings up a lot of issues. 

Everyone wants to believe that the person they love is perfect, never going to hurt them, and will always be there for them. Unfortunately this is not always the case, there are far to many cases of abuse in the world and as woman we need to stick together. People in this scenario usually do not see a way out the abusers have them scared for their lives so scared they feel they will be killed if they are caught. But believe me if you are in this situation you have options. There are numbers you can call, contact the police, tell your friends, tell your family. What ever you choose to do TELL SOMEONE!!! Woman die from this to many times and please don’t let this happen to you this is NOT your fault you need to get out of there and find your own safe haven.Image

To The Seniors!

Hello all you wonderful people! I just wanted to write you another post. At these times many of you may be struggling through the last few weeks of classes. Especially all you high school senior taking your finals and anticipating prom and the last day you will sit aside your childhood friends. You know what your future hold for the most part. A small dorm room, new friends, and independence!

I wanted to write to you saying congratulations. To all of you you have made it so far no matter what steps you are taking right now there is and always will be an obstacle that you must choose what to do. For those getting ready to graduate your life is just getting ready to start you will spend your summer packing and anticipating the road of college you are just getting ready to embark on. You only can imagine the emotions that you will feel on graduation day saying good bye to the faces of people who you may never speak to again, for some this will seem like a good thing and for others you will not understand how much you will misshem till they are gone. You must learn how to balance keeping friends is hard especially when you may only see them for a few weeks a year, average winter breaks in colleges are over a month it may seem long now but when that is the only time in months that you can share your time with your family and you past friends it will go by to fast.

Dont get me wrong college is a great experience and you deserve to love every minute of it but it is a change and this time in your life is emotional. Just think about your prom date. You will be spending an entire night dancing in each others arms, but in a few months when you are at different colleges there may be a time were you wish that that night had not ended. Adjustment is hard but everyone gets through it.

I have a picture wall in my dorm. The pictures are all of me and my friends as I take more and more pictures with my college friends the high school side seems to be disappearing now this is not something I attended to happen but time changes people and it changes feelings to.

The last thing I want to do it sound like a downer but i want you all to know what to expect in the net few weeks and months you are all amazing and youdeserve to enjoy every second of this trip you are about to take it. CONGRATULATIONS to all of you and dont forget to smile this is your first steps of life and I want you all to thrive!ihgfd

Get To Know Me

I have gotten several E-mails from people asking me to talk more about my self. Since I am trying to focus my blog on you guys and just telling you my experience on finding confidence and happiness I thought I would simply do the get to know me tag so that I can tell you a bit about my self with out being to boring and in only one post.


 we go…
1. Are you named after anyone? 
My parents named me Michelle so they could sing the Beatles Michelle My Bell to me as a baby so not really more after a song i guess
2. When was the last time you cried?
Actually about a week ago when I watched Remember Me such a sad but great movie ❤
3. Do you want kids?
4. If you were another person, would you be a friend of yourself? 
I think so  🙂
5. Do you use sarcasm a lot?
hahaah no I wish I could be a bit sassier
6. Will you ever bungee-jump?
7. What’s your favorite cereal?
Lucky Charms all the way <333
8. What’s the first thing you notice about people?
Ears I dont know why but i think ears are the funniest things
9. What is your eye colour?
 10. Scary movie or happy endings? 
Happy endings, if all movies could end like cinderella life would be great
11. Favorite smells? 
Im a wierdo who loves the smell of lemons
12. Summer or winter?
Summer I life in the cold but i hate snow
13. Computer or television?
 Computer im a blogger
14. What’s the furthest you’ve ever been from home? 
Alaska cruise with my family last summer
15. Do you have any special talents?
Im actually really good at giving advice and Im a good listener
16. Favorite place on Earth?
Well I have always wanted to go to Nebraska even though I’ve never been there the thought is my favorite place on Earth!
17. What are your hobbies?
Blogging and watching Dawsons Creek
18. Do you have any pets?
Yes a boxer but i will be getting a Boston terrier when I move in to my own home
19. Favorite movie?
Ummm I cant pick just one!! Tangled, Breakfast Club, 500 Days of Summer, and The Hobbit
20. Are you a family or friends person?
I like to think I am both I have some amazing friends who are like family and my family is made up of some of my best friends
21. What do you want to be when you grow up? 
Have any other questions just ask ❤

Your inner fights

Think of an acquaintance of yours, she may be a quite girl in your math class or a new neighbor who moved into your neighborhood. Now think about their lives you probably realize that you don’t know them very well which should make you realize you have no right to judge them. I know you have heard this many many times but what I want to point out is about you! Since you know its not right to judge others then you must realize its also not right for others to judge you.

What you should concentrate in is finding yourself. So do what ever the hell you want and dont care how you look to others because unless someone knows you as well as you know yourself its not okay to judge then the only persons opinion of you that should matter is your own and its the one worth listening to.